om god.... i'm on board with dee on this one.
Katie...it was real important for me when i first started the road to recovery that i understand that i don't really ever drink over a man...or for that matter anything outside myself...i drink over my own reactions to it.
I beilieve that others and circumstances can make sobriety easier or harder...but ultimately i drink over me...somehow thats what it comes back to in a tangled way.
This desease may kill any one of us....so nope grateful for the disease i am not