Originally Posted by
dorton 
Then today we get an email from him asking what he needed to do in order to come home and asked if he went to counseling could he come back.
Dorton, he's been through rehab. He made the choice to get caught with a girl in a closet and got kicked out temporarily. He was a resourceful young man and managed to make it outside the comforts of rehab till he could go back.
He comes to your home, and
chooses to use again. He knew the consequences. He has the tools he needs to stay clean. He
chose not to stay clean.
It was a very freeing day for me when I finally allowed my AD to make her own choices in life, poor though they may be, without any interference/help/providing a soft place to fall from me.
Just my two cents.
:ghug :ghug