Thanks for your warm wishes and doses of reality. He is drinking I found bottles on the roof. He has been tested before for diabetic and the test come back negative. I have asked AH to leave. The counsellors at the treament centre he was at told us that he would smell like alcohol but did not say for how long. I have had enough of he lies, lies lies. I left him last year after he kicked me and I called the police on him. He kicks me and it's my fault. BS. He calls me all sorts of names infront of our 2 girls. We have a 5yr and a 3yr. after he left the treatment centre I felt obligated to take him back but wasn't ready. The time I had without him was peaceful. I live in Canada and he is going to visit his sister where she can enable him. I am so happy he is going and I am counting the days. I am tired of the disrepect this man gives me. Why did I go back?????