Originally Posted by Rob B

Your relapse ended when you picked up the drink.
I've watched you flounder around here for the last year. You've had periods of time where you appear to be making progress, but mostly you just wallow in self pity. Victims do not get better. You got a resentment and used it as an excuse to drink. That's the truth.

I support whatever mechanism will get you sober and change your attitude, I am happy to discuss this via pm with you if you would like. I know about your condition, and I know how to get sober and stay sober.

For all of you that feel this is tough love, I offer this, many of you have been loving him to death for the last year and yet he drank. Sometimes support takes the form of a blunt wake up call, if this offends you put me on your ignore list or column one.