I don't think she threatens my sobriety, she just doesn't understand what addiction is all about. I've suggested Al-Anon and open NA meetings. She went to one meeting and came to rehab once to attend family therapy, but that was a disaster. I've been on Subutex and of course she doesn't understand that at all. I explained that a diabetic has to take insulin to control their disease. That's what Subutex does for me. I don't know. I'm really torn..