Hi Cams and welcome to the asylum. Congratulations on reaching the one year mark. I'm know it wasn't easy. As to your relationship, I'm not a marraige counselor but God knows that I've seen a lot of them. I'd suggest that if her attitude about the disease is a threat to your sobriety, then end the relationship. Maintaining sobriety is the most important thing in your life and must take precidence over all else. And although you got a year behind you, your sobriety is still very, very fragile. Don't let anything threaten it.