AND we are back to that topic! Just so you know Katie, you are more versed in that "other method" than I am. I have never been to a recovery meeting of any sort. I have not aligned myself with any method, save my own. I do think sometimes people just need support and love, and it makes me happy to give it. In your original post, you appeared to be having a good old fashion temper tantrum, and I chose to ignore it.
I also become foul tempered when I am sick, and in a foul temper I prefer coddling. In recovery, I am also a fan of honesty and the occasional kick in the pants when I need it.