bam...one of the tools i use is to try and think in terms of the we...get away from the you and me....so, instead of seeing a problem at work as being something that i and my boss tussel over, it is about how do "we" approach and work through it together.
helping others? when i participate in finding a solution with others instead of against others...if you know what i mean...building and maintaining an atmosphere of team rather than competition....
I open doors and stuff too...but i guess i don't see that as the big deal stuff...if yu know what i mean...for me it's more about putting good into the lives of others...often through encouragement, laughter and providing a listening ear.