Originally Posted by
keithj There is a big focus in my recovery on getting away from selfishness and self-seeking, on getting out of the me first, I'm so important mindset. The people I surround myself with today are people that love me enough to tell me the truth, even when it isn't comfortable. Katie is sick, just like me, and I don't begin to get better if I live in delusion, manipulate, and run away when I don't get my way.
Hmmm. Something to think about.
What exactly makes one “selfish” and “self-seeking”? I would like someone to explain this, please. I see these phrases used frequently around here. Anyone care to give their definition?