Cynical, I guess I used the wrong word, Why should the ow get the father of nytes children. When I talk of working things out, it's usally for the sake of love(if she loves him) and for the sake of the kids. I know cheating is a deal breaker, but sometimes forgiveness is a great thing that keeps families together, and daddies at home with their kids. It's up to Nyte, and if she is willing to accept and forgive. I said she has no morals, because she called the wife and put it in her face. The husband is 100% guilty and wrong. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately I was not able to forgive my first husband. He was guilty of the same thing. When I see what our divorce did to our child, I am able to reconsider now that I am older and wiser. I knew I was going to get into trouble posting here.