If I had the money or knew how to drive and didn't have the court and legal commitments here to get my kids back I would jump at the chance in a heart beat. trust me on that.
But my 2 number one important factors is doing all that is required to get my kids back and unfortunately that requires me to stay here, and 2 getting the divorce going which agian requires me to stay here. If things get bad I will go to the womens shelter. I have stayed there before and they know the situation.