Jessie, It doesn't matter how much or how often the rest of us drank. What matters is how alcohol is affecting your life. Everone is different except for the fact that we are all powerless over alcohol and our lives had become unmanageable.
I suggest you go to a few AA meetings. You'll be suprised at how much you have in common with other problem drinkers. And going to meetings is a sure cure for boredom, especially if you join a home group and get actively involved. And work on quitting drinking. It doesn't matter if it's wine or whiskey, it will end up killing you.
Keep us posted. We're all rooting for you.