These boys just drive us crazy. They just don't get it. It's like enough is enough. From one mother to another, I am so sorry for I know what your going through. My son, took off from several rehabs. The not knowing was a horror for me. However, he resurfaced, in need of help as usual. The problem is that your son is just so young. Not even 18 yet. I don't know what to tell you except, your the adult, he is the child. You might need to have him commited. He is a danger to himself. Sorry for your heartache. I know what your feeling. Hang in there. I'm looking forward to your next post, and waiting to hear what the preacher has to say. It's a good idea to step out of the way, and let God do what he has to do, but in your case, your son is a minor, and you are still responsible for him. I wish I had advice for you, but I don't. I'm sorry Winnie, your a great mom, and your son is obviously going to learn the hard way. That's never good.