I just wanted to mention that sometimes remembering the OPs intention can help me keep perspective. People generally want to share what works for them, be it about finances, relationships, or recovery options. I believe that a persons intense need to share their ideas comes from a deep desire to see others happy. They are sooo excited that they just must tell people about how they got IT, whatever IT may be, to share their wealth of knowledge. This keeps me from getting overly upset when someone is a little "pushy" or rather "excited" about the way that they do things. SOme may say this is naive but I believe people are good from the get go.
So I guess what I am saying is maybe we could all try and see how much these OTHER(?) people must think of us that they want to share what they have that is making them happy. No not everyone is always nice about it but like I said I try to remember the OPs ORIGINAL intent, helps me.....just thought I would share.