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Old 03-23-2009, 02:48 AM
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louis
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A question?????

Im not sure how to say this is bear/bare withme here please.

I have noticed more and more recently that i appologise and say thankyou way more than is really necessary.
I hate taking up peoples time and am really grateful when someone does give me there time that i think i go over the top in thanking them and that maybe it can be abit off putting.

I know this a self-esteem thing but i seriously worry about it.

I constantly think that i need to give something back an in the past i generally have had to...
If a mate does something for me i buy them a drink... or i buy them anything, because i feel i owe them.

Is anyone else like this and if so how do i stop it?

I really dont like being like this... it's a habit now it think.

Hope that makes sense!!!!

P.s.... A last appology here: Sometimes i might not be able to get back for a few days to post a response if someone has written a reply to any of my posts etc... i dont want anyone to think i am being rude... i sometimes work a few days at a time and cannot get back to a computer to respond... it doesn't mean i dont appreciate any responses i get or that i am being ignorant...
See there i go again... that paragraph was meant to be one sentence :o)

Anyway i hope you are all finding some peace today.
Be well
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