No, sorry, I'm sure there are plenty of women that abuse their SO in this way too. And plenty of male codies. I guess they don't go to meetings as much around here, for some reason, so I don't know any in person. But I didn't mean to leave you men out. Thanks for the feedback. My picker is broken, too. I'd be terrified of anyone I was attracted to at this point. But I can tell you that all my soft, romantic-type feelings are dead right now. I feel like a forest that had a fire burn through it.
Love,
KJ