I like reading, toll painting, cleaning my house, organizing, volunteering, gardening, decorating, mama's night (red hat society for the younger group), facebook and lazy days. My point in sharing all my little quirky things I do is that I suck at most of them, but I enjoy the heck out of each one of them. I actually strongly considered taking a class down at the community college on basket weaving. There are social groups everywhere (check craigslist for your local groups). Get out there and have a good time. At one time I had a toll painting class in my garage...basically a huge social hour for lots of women to come over do something imperfect. love it. If you lived a bit closer...you could come too. I get alot out of volunteering my time too. Local food shelters are always in need of help...and I walk away feeling like I have done something to help.
Hope you find the right things to fill your time.
hugs