Hi all- I have been working on my codependency for sometime now with the help of a wonderful therapist. I have been single for 18 months and have been very lonley and bored lately. My therapist says that this is the time I need to find out what I can do to soothe myself instead of looking to men to do it. I am struggling with finding what that is. I am not creative in an artistic sense, I don't have a hobbie and I am not having luck finding things to do to occupy my mind instead of thinking about my exAB. I do pamper myself and try to do things i like, but it those times that I am lonley and by myself that i find the most daunting. Any thoughts/suggestions?
thanks all!
