It works, it actually really works, all of this spiritual claptrap hokey pokey stupid slogany granola eatin fruitbat ********....
Hey, can I quote you on that?
MissFixit, hugs to you (and happy early birthday too!) Change is never easy, but every time we get through it and honor ourselves by doing a good job at it, it gets easier the next time. Sounds like a wonderful life you're heading back into. Heck with that guy - you're going to do great.