i am not married but i have a boyfriend that is an addict. geez sounds like my life...wow. i feel alone sometimes. but thier are so many of me out there. i am glad i gave him a last chance. because its been several months he has been clean. he now is in the hospital for depression and cravings. but hes clean and very willing to get help. i am there to support him. it's only been a short time but i stood my ground and took now excusses and it;s sobor and homeless and alone. his ex wife stood by me and supported me with the disision i made and was willing to refuse visition with his kids. i am just glad i didn't turn my back when i so wanted to. we are heeling one day at a time. i am very proud of him and the disision i made and i am willing to stand my ground and we have a contract if he uses he has to leave he signed it and it is hanging where he can see it everyday. hope this helps.:praying