Marissa, Alanon gave me so many helpful tips when I first learned that my son had a drug addiction to narcotics. However, I was an enabling mother, who refused to listen to anything anyone would say at that time. Because I fixed my own addiction without a program, I really thought I could fix my son too. Well, long story short, I couldn't, and it didn't work my way. I should have listened to Naranon, for they knew better than I. They are so helpful, and tough love all the way. I know that's hard for mothers, but if you want your son clean and off of drugs, then you have to put him out, and contribute nothing to his addictions. God Bless you, for I know exactly what your going through. Let your son suffer the consequences of his own actions. Unfortunately, that's what made my son, go into treatment. Good Luck to you, and thanks for requesting me as your friend. :ghug3Angel