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solanari and any interested:
Go to RR website archives and read post called "Gay, Living in Holland." This person started a flame war on the forum by moaning about his lot in life as a gay man in a hetero society on an "AVRT" discussion board. The administrator replied by asking him if he wanted to change his sexual preference by using the principles of AVRT, as AVRT is ultimately about change (quitting something that is harmful to you)after all. He became even more irate and posted all kinds of insulting threats. No one on the AVRT forum knew why he was posting at all, or what he was wanting from RR as the reason for his posts seemed only to vent a bitter tirade against the USA and heterosexuals.
RR bites. It doesn't coddle people or stroke them as some discussion boards do. It's not about being dysfunctional (everybody is)nor is it a forum to complain about what has happened to you in life( as many use that as an excuse for their addictions) but to take action and be willing to take action.
He was one person of course and does not represent all homosexual people.
[This message has been edited by nico (edited May 03, 2002).]