His letter humbly apologizes, asks forgiveness blah, blah, blah. and by the way , if it's not too much trouble, can I go pick up the stuff he left at the girlfriends? Is he kidding? Have I not suffered enough embarrassment, humiliation and pain?? Wtf?? Why, oh why do I even care??
Sweetie, you deserve so much better than this. That request is absurd and a reflection of his lack of consideration for anyone but himself.
You say you already know the answers, and I suspect you already know what to do, which is to take your focus off what HE needs or wants or requests and figure out what YOU need or want for yourself. For me, going to live meetings helped me regain my balance and reclaim my life. Maybe give it a try, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Hugs