Need Help - He Finally Moved Out
I finally broke up with my ex ABF and he has moved out. We have been living together for over 3 years and he has been sober for almost 3.
I have mixed feelings of sadness, regret, and relief. As I reflect on the past, I look at moments of our time together, and I think "what was I thinking." It makes me sad that he treated me so unkind and even sadder to think I put up with it.
Still I love him but I will let him go. It wasn't all bad, but I know that I deserve to be treated much better.
How did you get past feeling blue, not running back, and feeling good about your decisions. Just needs some words of encouragement.