Honesty..with a drinking alkie yes.....brutal honesty with a drink alkie yes.
BUT..i ask myself am i being brutal for there sake.....or mine.....
kissy kissy head stroking never got me sober......
But ask yourself this can you honesty say that the sort of day you have had doesnt reflect how you post replys?
I learnt a leason early on here...by getting a post deleted....it was full of anger because i had a sh@t night.......taught me a good leason.
But to be honest i still see it on here....
I hear.....we have to be brutally honest here... it life and death.
yeah ok....but to the point where that person stops listening???...
Bottom line is i think we are all different and thats a positive...
Can you imagine coming here for support and getting 20 replys all the same!!
I want to mention a recent post......you know it... went to 4 pages...
Some of it was great....honest...brutally honest advice...
Some of it was just an excuse to off load their own anger.....
Thats only my opinoin......just another one of the many on here...
trucker