Welcome to the site!! I am also new here and have found alot of support . I too have two small children and promised myself I wouldn't get drunk everytime I drank... I never kept my promise to myself... though I MEANT to... Hang in there this is a GREAT first step. Everytime I think of drinking I promise myself that I won't for my kids they deserve more than a drunk for a mom. So far that has been enough to keep me from picking up the first drink.... Big Hugz!!!