We're here for you Glenna, stay strong.
He got himself into this situation and REMEMBER: even though you were doing everything for him (because his choices had made him like a second child for you) he still felt the right to abuse you as much as he wanted. He has no respect for you. You are a tool to get what he wants: comfort, safety, money, a ride, booze.
DO NOT LISTEN TO THE MESSAGES. Too bad you can't post them on the Web.....we could help sort through them and categorize them for you:
1) mock-worried quacking
2) angry quacking
3) furious quacking
4) begging quacking
5) I-need-my-enabler quacking
6) manipulation - angry again
7) drunken threat quackety-quack-quack quacking
.......and so on
Get the feeling I've been through this before too? I had fifty-one messages one night. Fifty-one. And not a single one was worth listening too....just quack, quack, quack, me, me, me.
There is no problem you currently have that can't be solved by taking small, healthy steps in the right direction.
