Hi Ruthy,
Welcome.
You are not awful for not trusting your daughter. This is a sort of wisdom that comes from dealing with an addict time and again whose addiction makes them deceitful or manipulative.
You are wise to question the impact statement. When my father was in rehab once he asked me to fill out a questionnaire for him with the "right" answers so he could be discharged sooner (or so he thought).
We have to take care of ourselves and if that means we need to be on guard so we don't get duped so be it.
Thinking of you and wishing you well.
