ImagineMe: thanks for sharing that vision "That resentment will lead to a drink."
I have been a "stealth drinker" of wine for several years, coming to this board for help, lumping along "trying" to quit completely for a year. My sobriety date is Feb. 14. No more of this.
Right now I am struggling terribly at work: it is just not right in many ways. I need to change. It is going to take work to do so, but I really need to change this part of my life.
Looking back over the last two years, I realize how much resentment I have had, and I did temper it with wine. It is foolish to think this resentment is going to go away because I stopped drinking--now I get to deal with it, don't I ? (lol)
I'm ready to deal with life on its terms, no matter what they are.
Welcome, welcome!