naive

i was given the advice to "run and run fast" about four years ago. i didn't. i wish i had because then i wouldn't have gotten pregnant, had an abortion, had him financially bleed me down to poverty, not to mention his drunken infidelities. i would still be living in my lovely home but now i'm living with him in his ghetto flat. my new neighbors are prostitutes and drug dealers.

my advice to you would be run! and run fast! if you need to prove it to yourself, then start keeping a daily journal of his madness. it is very helpful to review what happened two weeks ago and remind yourself when it begins again.

i would also do some fact verification, if you can't let go. in my case, once i started verifiying where he said he was, etc. it became painfully clear he was a liar and would say just about anything to hide his drinking.

enjoy your time at the beach this weekend.

marie