So proud of you, bognots!
I'm in the same boat as you, just tired of all the BS, no more answering calls, etc etc. My sister-in-law (whom I'm still friends with, she's a great person) is totally 100% clean, sober, and on my side. She just got back from being deployed overseas. My ex-AH and their mother are addicts and are currently living together. She said that she spoke to her mother on the phone and said that my ex-AH has lost it and has become violent towards her, saying that it is her fault he is so f'ed up; and he's also freaking out about losing us (me and the kids) Thank god he lives in a different state and doesn't have a vehicle right now. He's also about to go back to prison; if he were still here in the same state with a truck I would have gotten a restraining order as well (maybe I still should??)
Anyway, kudos to you.
