Thanks for the comments guys. I don't feel like a dry drunk at all, i have peace, i have serenity and generally quite happy about my sobriety. My sponsor never asked me any of this, his thoughts are that sobriety only occurs through regular attendence of AA meetings.
I think that maybe i have put him on a pedestal, in that he knows it all.
There are many support networks out there of which AA is just one, that does help but can also be a hindrance at times in my view.
Paul