HI! Welcome!
It has to be his choice to go to a meeting or to stay sober. Make sure you keep going to meetings!! no reason for you to stop
remmeber you didn't cause it you can't control it, and you can't cure it.
The one thing that helped me when I wanted to tell AH what to do is this: I would say what I had to say just once. I would say it calmly. I would say it while he was sober. And I would leave it at that. No arguing, no extra comments. It was up to him to do what he wanted with the information.
Keep reading and keep posting!