Originally Posted by
kj3880 
He was ultra-manipulative, jealous, and controlling. He didn't work, tried to weasel money out of me, and would never respect my boundaries, and I wasn't good at enforcing them.
For instance, he would come over every night without invitation, go through my text messages, read my e-mail, call me a work several times in an hour for the stupidest of reasons ......
He said he wanted to stay friends,
Where exactly is the friendship in this relationship?
Change your phone number. Change your locks. Change your email address and passwords. While you are at it, change your all your PIN numbers. If he calls you at work, hang up. It's not rude to hang up on a stalker. And for goodness sake, clue in your Sponsor.