Good idea, Katie. Staying away from this guy is a very good idea!
When we're using, our lives were chaotic and at times just down right crazy. When we get clean, at times it can seem very boring because we're used to the insanity of it all. The important thing is to find healthy things to fill this void. You can still have a lot of excitement, just make sure they are healthy things.
Sounds like you are on your way! It's usually a good idea to follow that gut feeling that we get when certain situations first arise. I'm sure you had some red flags waving concerning this guy when these things first started happening.
Keep it simple, One Day at A Time and remember, you do deserve to be around healthy people in healthy places!
Hugs,
Judy
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