Oh Rita, I'm sorry to hear of your troubles and sadness. I have been through divorce- and it wasn't with an addict.
I did what you did, and just said, "whatever" - and let it go.
Sometimes it's easier to move on that way.
I did take your words to heart. I'm considering RUNNING... and not walking away.
I needed to hear that tonight- so, in some odd circle of a way, your words hit me.
Thankyou for shareing, and I hope that you end up stronger, with a peaceful life when all of this passes.
Love,
Cessy