Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
so you want someone who is open and honest and forthright and treats you with respect as a full fledged partner in life?
This man, whoever he is, needs only to crook his little finger and I will come a-runnin' The day I realized that "healthy" had become synonymous with "sexy" was one of the happiest days I can remember....praying for the same for you, isitme!
Because you know what? It ISN'T you that's at fault here. You're trying to help yourself, he's trying to get you to help HIM.