making your own choices, giving value to your own voice, honoring your own wants, needs, desires and interests is a sign of emotional maturity. when we realize we really aren't the Center of the Universe, and what we do or don't do really doesn't matter for squat, when we stay in bed all day and discover that the sun still rose and the Earth continued to spin on it's axis WITHOUT our help, we learn our "place" - we learn that what matters to us really only matters TO US. rest of the world really doesn't give a sh!t.........when we free ourselves of the belief that we are such a large part of other's lives and decisions, when we deflate our ego to normal size by accepting what we are truly powerless over, we can then grow towards leading our best life possible, picking out all the weeds and cultivating fertile soil.....
Thank you Anvil!! The quote of the day!!!
peace-
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