Hi,
Not to beat a dead horse, but I think the nature of being an A is focusing on yourself whereas the nature of being co-dependant is focsuing on another person. Using that premise it seems logical that FandF would talk about others, while A's would talk about themselves.
I don't think that is a criticism at all. When "we" slip, we dwell on what "they" did. When A's slip, they drink again. Both sections write here, which IMHO is seeking recovery. Just to put your thoughts out there no matter what side of the fence you are on.
I am new and until I came here NO ONE around me could share my experience. I vented and continue to vent here. I also gain a LOT of knowledge from others' situations and advice. I feel less alone in this type of messy life experience, but that is probably becasue I am newer. I don't talk with many others who have never gone through such things. I find it helpful to bounce ideas and situations off others' who have experienced the rollercoaster.