I couldn't decide whether to post here or not
But seriously...
I used to be pretty indecisive. Not surprising when every decision was avoided by drinking LOL.
I'm finding myself far more decisive these days - whether that's my recovery, or my increasing age LOL I dunno. I know I have more self confidence, and that's definitely through me doing what I've done in recovery.
I trust my judgement a lot more - I'm not perfect but I think I do ok.
I'm far less scared of *doing something* - probably because I'm not trying to drink stuff away, so I'm used to dealing with stuff as it happens these days, and it's been working out ok
Responsibility doesn't scare me as much - I've found there's very few things that can't be fixed up if you own up to your mistakes right away.
I guess if I was faced with something really big, or really important, I'd do a pros and con thing - either in my head or on paper
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