Dang Freedom, I'm so sorry about all of this. Thank you for providing Raven such a loving life. I told you about my dog Callie. We buried her up @ my parents house right beside my parents dog Wrinkles (they were buds). Callie and Wrinkles both have crosses. Know that when her time comes that you gave her a great life with lots of love. Given Raven an extra hug from me.
You've said it to me many times, you cannot reason with an addict. I'm sorry you're dealing with this in your AD.