Oh I really agree.
I had one guy who started off friendly and then his e-mails became very sexual. He kept saying I can come round and have sex with you, but don't expect me to marry you, I have a gorgeous girlffriend and I need her to buy into my properties so I do not loose them!!!
I was like
1. I do not want to sleep with you, it was your idea not mine
2. You are not welcome at my house do not invite yourself!
3. You must have a really high opinion of yourself to tell me that you would come round, do me and keep me secret!
4. I am not that desperate thanks!
5. Who the hell do you think you are?
6. I actually do not want to marry anyone, least of all you!
Don't let him make you feel bad! What an absoulte ar@ehole. He does not deserve your forgiveness yet and you should make him feel bad until he 'gets it' as he obviousley has not yet.
God I could scream at how self centered some people are.
Best wishes
Kisses
B
xxxx