Toabetterme:
I understand your husbands response. If this is the first time you've told him anything about wanting to quit....and it was in passing....and he was drinking.....I get it. Think about if your best friend, drinking partner, told you in this situation. You don't want them to quit because "good friends drink alike" and you would miss that. And if you were already drinking? My husband just thinks I'm trying to see how long I can go. He keeps asking, " For how long?" I'm planning to sit down with him, eye to eye, serious conversation, that I'm quitting for good. I'm going to plead for help, support and tell him that I am sick.