That is so wrong of your husband. I am sry you didnt get the support you want from him.
I agree. Alot of times when others witht the same habits as us hear soemthing like that. Its out of insecurity. IMO.
Do what you have to for you. I know it hurts not getting the support from someone you care about. But you know what? You can do it. Lead by example. And yes. I told you so. No need to argue. Just show what your made of. And I am sure you can do it.
You know you have your daughters support and all of us here. Good luck.