I ended up leaving after another battle. Went to a movie with a friend. Thanks for all the support. He had been gone till last night and I have almost two weeks sober. I have a routine sort of and it did not include getting all up in my head about who did what who owes who what etc etc. Spark you are right and I am doing all that I can to concentrate on whatever I need in the moment to keep me sober, if that means leaving for a bit then thats the plan. Im just not sure how I feel about him right now and I think he senses that and it makes him nervous Im sure, but I will not fake feelings that arent there. I need more time alone I think, that or I just dont want to deal with this, hmmm not sure which. Anyway thanks again for the support, it is soooo needed.