Originally Posted by
allport 
And Robby why might you have told Nicki to sit alone while you socialised, im not being bitchy i just really cant understand what value that would have.
At the very least wouldnt you have introduced her to your friends?
Hi allport,
np. i'm not sure i would *socialize* while my sponsee just sat there. no need to humiliate her.
i do see some merit in allowing her to sit one out though... it helps with humilty and understanding shame... how its done is another thing of course. i was not there exactly so....
