I would suggest you talk with her...and then tell us later.
There is another saying.."Contempt prior to investigation"...I love that one!
We can surmise all day what her motives were, but the fact is..we don't know.
We do know..you are trying very hard, Nicki.
And honestly? I would be upset too..but I don't know your sponsor's motives.
If she didn't care...she wouldn't bother.
Keep posting...
Hugs, and more
Sher