Thanks Fubarcdn...
Yeah, I know I need to find out the "whys" behind it. When she first got sober years ago she was a guy magnet and gravitated that way! I'm not bad looking and she may fear that my MO is similar to how her's was in the beginning! Not the case! Anyways, I'm speculating and just need to get to the bottom of this and make a decision to stay or bail.... Also, I ended up getting "disciplined" for sharing in a mtg (she wasn't there) the other day when she said no sharing for 30 days. It was a "slip" and I came clean with it but have reprecussions of having the 30 day silence start on the day I blew it.... This is hard!