That's exactly me! I hesitate & then second guess myself, even though I find time & time again that if I trust myself the first time around, it's usually the right decision. I had a boss a couple of years ago tell me that I was very good at what I do, except that I don't trust my gut instincts on things & end up taking another route, which doesn't turn out as well. She helped me to learn to trust my gut at work & go with it. I keep thinking back on that & how I need to learn that in my home life, too.