Hello, I agree with everyone else I think you would benefit from a program, the key is though to go together . Is it possible that your husband would attend an al-anon meeting with you? My father is an alcoholic and although he hasnt had a drink for 6 years now he and his wife are having alot of problems , mainly because he still has a very short fuse and since weve all been going to the aa and al-anon meetings together they have been able to work thru alot of the problems and are continuing to work on the others. If he is open to going I think it would do both of you good, however, if he wont I still think you should try to attend that way people who are in the same situation , and trust me there are many , can give you support and positive thaughts and ideas. Hope all goes well , god bless
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